diff --git a/site/templates/index.j2 b/site/templates/index.j2
index db4c3fa..fc0b019 100644
--- a/site/templates/index.j2
+++ b/site/templates/index.j2
@@ -16,7 +16,8 @@
     <span class="hoverblur">robot-cat-girl-</span>thing.
     it likes <span class="hoverblur">matrix, irc, xmpp, and other</span>
     open chat protocols, privacy advocacy, the fediverse, programming,
-    and more.
+    and more. it uses it/its when possible, otherwise she/her when not
+    possible.
     </p>
     <h3>more about it</h3>
     <p>